Truth : honesty is the best policy.
For example : in the South racist people hate black/brown skin openly and clearly; --BUT honestly.
However, in the North(y'all) assert white power and privilege using passive-aggressive microaggressions to disguise discrimination as 'color-blindness'(indifference).
Truth: honesty is the best policy because it's a time and money saver.
So please help me save time and money by honestly telling me that Reds Gym is a Whites Only (racist) establishment. Do not be like Rochester, New York Syracuse.
I want to fulfill several fantasies at the upcoming CumUnion event but not if it is a Whites Only (racist establishment). The Reds Gym website claims to be inclusive but can We be real for a moment?
Rochester, New York claims to be 'inclusive' too but I am hoping Syracuse, New York can show more integrity. I am doubtful but hopeful. As a latino from the South I have experienced racism my entire life. Escaping to the North (Rochester, New York) and then experiencing racism passive-aggressive microaggressions to disguise discrimination as 'color-blindness'(indifference) is nauseating. I know racism when I see it and I am weary of it. And at the end of the day the truth always comes out and everyone suffers.
Keep the hate to yourselves and indulge. But keep that to yourselves and just let me know the truth so you can have a good time. And I don't have to be re-traumatized and stigmatized because of the color of my skin.
I am doing my best to avoid ruining your party. I cannot do this by myself. So please show some integrity and take a moment to respond honestly.
Integrity : Equals the number of responses minus the number of views.
For example, if one person responds and the numbers views is one then the answer is zero. Which means nothing. But if one person responds and the number of views is ten then the answer is negative nine. Which speaks for itself and everyone reading this sees for themselves the integrity of this community.
Truth : honesty is the best policy.
Signed,
Looking for racism where none exists. Black men are most welcome at Red Gym
I think that you are mistaking what you call micro aggressions with deep seeded insecurity and feeling inferior. You are looking for these so called micro aggressions. Respect yourself for who are and believe in your self.
I was there on 6/21 for the All Gender Night and there were a number of blacks there... I saw no hint of racism.
Men of color are absolutely welcome!!!
I would hope that in this day and age that there would be no such thing as a whites only gay men’s club, but I’m sure there are…
I cannot speak to the ignorant thoughts of others, but I can tell you I have sucked and been fucked by cocks of every race while playing at reds! Fun and friendly people having a good time!