I was definitely in your shoes once. I too am a married closeted bi guy and my first time was absolutely nerve wracking. However, I garnered the courage and went in. This establishment from the owner, staff and patrons are unbelievably friendly and welcoming. It’s a no pressure environment and everyone is respectful of your boundaries. That said, I felt the same way as you in regards to “bumping” into someone I know. Here’s my thought on this, if I do run into someone I know, my thoughts are that he and I have the same interests and desires sexually. So, I know his secret and he knows mine, so how can we out each other? Another philosophy I have is, if it did come out, admit nothing, deny everything and counter accuse your accuser lol. As long as there’s no pics or video, it never happened lol. All kidding aside, take a deep breath and take the leap of faith and give into your desires and get in there and have fun! Safe play is on you my friend. There’s an abundance of free condoms available and the best part is you control you, no means no and every one will respect that. I’ve had a few nice experiences there myself and never put myself in a unsafe position. What do you have to lose? You’ll regret it if you don’t go and experience it.

Hey there, Red is a very nice establishment. You’ll be greeted by the attendant at the door, pay for a locker, or in your case, a room. May I suggest that you get the video room for a cpl bucks more. The room is a bit small but it’s private, has a asingle mattress and you can secure it while cruising. The doorway has a yellow chain that you can string across the threshold, that tells everyone that it’s cool to look but not enter unless you give permission. It also allows you to see who’s cruising as well. That’s what I do. The gym has a sauna, steam room, video room and a play room with a swing, glory holes and a padded area. It’s a well laid out establishment and meeting people is pretty easy. You can wear as much or as little as you want. Most guys walk around in a towel that you’ll be given at the front desk. Yes, you can be naked in all area’s with the exception of the gym workout area and upfront by the front door. I personally always walk around naked, why not it’s an open environment to relax and enjoy. Have fun!

The basic room has a small single size mattress/bed and a light that can be dimmed. The video room is rhe same as the basic room, but has a tv on the wall playing porn. The VIP room is a bit larger and has two mattresses/bed as well as a tv on the wall playing porn. All rooms have a plastic yellow chain right outside the door. They are meant to be used when you want to be watched, or allows you to cruise. If you’re interested in a guy then you can unhook the chain and let him in. Hope this helps.

Hey there, when do you think you’ll be able to be there?

Yes, you absolutely can bring your regular. If you're interested in getting a room, one would have to pay for the room and the other a locker in order for both of you to enter Red. Once inside, you're free to do whatever you wish, wether it's behind closed doors or in public view. Red is a very warm and welcoming establishment for you to be as sexual as you like.

I'm about an hour and a half away from Syracuse, Please let me know when you think you might be available and see what I can do. I usually visit Red from 12:30 Till 2:30 when I go

It's my absolute favorite! Hey Richelle, I'd be interested in a session with you sometime.

Hey Amber, I'm coming today (8/31/23) noonish for a cpl hours, you took very good care of me the last time I was there. It'd be cool to see you again

It’s absolutely ok. Red is a safe place to be yourself and the patrons are very friendly and respectful. I’ve been there several times and that’s exactly what I do and no one will fault you for it. So, go and experience the erotic atmosphere Red offers and be yourself

It’s absolutely ok. Red is a safe place to be yourself and the patrons are very friendly and respectful. I’ve been there several times and that’s exactly what I do and no one will fault you for it. So, go and experience the erotic atmosphere Red offers and be yourself!

You certainly honored my request and it was one of the best blowjobs I’ve ever had… thanks bicdamber! I hope to meet up with you again.

Great cock! I’ll be there in the afternoon August 12th. it’d be cool to see.